Daniel did what he thought was going to get him a profit…he moved his stop! The price action was moving perilously close to the stop loss he had put 4 ticks above the distal supply zone line that was drawn on the 60 minute YM E-mini chart. When he saw this, his heart began to pound, his breathing became shallow and he felt a flood of anxiety and fear. Another part of him was attempting to shout… , “No, don’t do that!” But it might as well have been a whimper in a windstorm because Daniel could barely hear it. His attention was riveted to the price movement as he was haunted relentlessly by his past three lost trades. He wanted desperately to get even. Now, more than likely, your trading rules include a big red sign on moving your stop loss. That will get you in a lot of trouble; as you no doubt have already experienced. When you do something that is a violation of your established trade rules you not only increase your risk greatly, you also decrease your self-esteem because you have broken another promise to you…and it feels horrible. So, even if you do happen to get a profitable trade, it’s almost like taking a loss because you have reinforced “losing” behavior. You have acted against your own best interests. You were in conflict with you and you lost! When you are in conflict because part of you wants to just take a chance and your other part wants to trade (with your A-Game), every time the A-Game loses out, even if you happen to make a profit on the risky trade, you have lost a bit more of your ability to keep your highest and best trader at the platform. When you are out of alignment it is all but impossible to maintain focus on what matters most and do what is in your best interest.
Have you ever tried to ride a bike that had out-of-alignment wheels? It is not a pretty site. Once when I was on a century ride (100 miles) for the last 30 miles I felt a strong tug, which made me feel as though I were in a head wind. I had to work twice as hard to go half as fast. It was very difficult to say the least. When I reached the end of the ride I noticed that I had popped a spoke. This meant that the wheel had become out-of-alignment and looked like a wobbly noodle. As a result, the wheel had been rubbing on the brakes almost constantly which caused me to work against myself. This is what happens when you are out-of-alignment in your trading. You begin to work against your own best interests as your internal conflict rages causing you to become confused, frustrated, angry and fragmented, to name a few. This is not a good prescription for properly planning and executing as you trade. And, your trades are so serious that you’ll want to have all your mental cylinders “rockin” as you enter and exit trade set-ups. The point is that your mental/emotional system is immensely critical to this process of alignment. You want to be lined up in body, mind, and emotions, going in the same direction and for the same goals. Your preparation and training cannot take you to ever higher heights of trading goals if your execution is full of conflict and working at cross purposes.
Being in alignment with yourself can also be described as thinking, feeling and doing in a way that resonates with reality of the charts and optimizes all of your internal and external resources. It is supporting you through states of mind that have a confidence based on competence. Being aligned is founded on a belief system that maximizes supportive positive beliefs and minimizes limiting beliefs that may still be in your unconscious. Being in alignment also means that you are aimed to be and remain in the Now of the trade because if you are not in the Now you will reduce the available attention you have in your mind when you allow yourself to become distracted and fragmented. Becoming distracted and fragmented are negative in and of themselves; but when you are trading these negatives compound your deficits and worsen any bad thoughts or feelings that you might be experiencing. No doubt you have noticed when you were out-of-alignment and conflicted you became confused about what would be the best thing to do vs what your ego was telling you. That ego-voice might have been telling you, “Don’t mind that plan, you can move that stop if you want to!” Another indication that you are out of alignment is when your values become challenges for instance “keeping commitments and promises” become less than a priority.
When you think, feel, say, and do in a way that is congruent—meaning that you have internal and external consistency, perceived by others as sincerity or authenticity—then you are in alignment. It can also be termed an ‘intra-rapport’, moving in tandem with self, in sync and balanced, centered and grounded. You can also be described as having integrity and ‘walking your talk’. Alignment cannot be overstated in its importance to trading or anything that involves performance, for like the congruency and alignment of the moving parts of an engine or a bicycle, if integrity and alignment are compromised, even in minute ways, the object will either not reach its destination or it will, due to internal friction, be thrown off course and disengaged to the point of disruption and destruction. On the other hand, when alignment is true, optimal performance is all but guaranteed. All parts are moving towards the same goal and in the same direction with precision.
Humans are often out of alignment, but sadly, many don’t recognize it. They trudge along trying through force of will to achieve desired outcomes, and when they descend into mental and emotional fatigue due to the stress of moving against themselves, they often wonder why and search for the answer to their issues from every vantage point but the one that matters—inside of themselves.
Purpose is first on this list because it’s of vital importance that you’ve identified the reason why you are in pursuit of any goal, objective, or desire. You must be able to answer the “why” question. A compelling reason will not only move, but catapult you to achievement.
Next, you’ll want to have Beliefs that support your purpose. Of course, you must first know what your beliefs are. Many of your beliefs are unconscious and must be discovered through a process of introspection and reflection.
Values are also critical. As with beliefs, values must, for the most part, be uncovered. You may want to “choose” values that are lofty and noble, but if you aren’t already “living” a value, it is not a personal value; it’s a personal principle, no matter how much you talk about it. Personal principles and values are similar but not the same. Personal principles are what you hold as important, and you aim to be true to those standards and maintain them. Personal principles are what you “want” to live by. Values are how you are living – how you roll, so to speak.
Identity is another important aspect of you that must be in alignment. It is the description of who you are. Of course, you must first figure out which person in you we’re talking about. Who are you first thing in the morning? Who are you when you are really stressed? Who are you when things are going well? Who are you when you’ve just entered into a trade with an oversized position? The fact of the matter is that you are not one personality; rather, you are an amalgam of any number of personas fashioned by your experiences taken from all manner of influential figures throughout your life.
Finally, what are you doing in the service of your alignment? Are you focused with a purpose that encompasses the desired outcome? Behaviors are the test of alignment. In other words, are you doing what you said you were going to do, like keeping commitments, following through with projects and following up on task items? Do you have a trading plan and are you following through on it? Do you have trading rules? Are you practicing appropriate money management and position sizing? When you have losses or experience other disappointments, are you able to accept the reality and move on, or do you wallow in self-pity, sadness, and anger? Are you following the market? Or, do you wish, hope, pray, and otherwise try to make the market go where you want it to go? Are you journaling? Are you logging your trades? What you do speaks volumes about who you are. Alignment also relates to how you are conducting yourself in other parts of your life. Are you expecting more from others than you are willing to give yourself? Are you keeping your promises? Are you having difficult conversations with loved ones and other important people in your life? Are you exhibiting courage? Align yourself and your trading for consistent success. You are an organic machine, and you work best when all of you are working in the same direction and on the same goals. Online Trading Academy is poised to assist you in successfully preparing yourself to trade as a winner, planning your trades, trading your plans and following all of your rules. Ask you Online Trading Academy representative for more information. Also, get my book “From Pain to Profit: Secrets of the Peak Performance Trader.”